ʻO ka mea hoʻokalakupua lanakila o Oscar, ʻo Nicolas Schmerkin e wehewehe i ka kūkulu ʻana i nā pilina me nā luna

Ma hope o ke kūkākūkā papa, makemake au e ʻike hou aku. Ua hoʻomau mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka mea e pono ai ka mea hana e kūkulu i kahi pilina hana kūleʻa me kahi alakaʻi. Ua unuhi ʻia nā ʻike ʻehiku mai kā mākou leka uila a hoʻopili ʻia me nā ʻōlelo āna i hana ai ma Montreal. Ua unuhiia mai Farani mai.

1. Ke halawai oe me ke alakai, e ona pu.

Schmerkin: No ka hana ʻana i kahi alakaʻi, pono ʻoe e mahalo iā lākou, a me kā lākou hana. Pono a lawa kēia mau kūlana e hoʻomaka ai e kamaʻilio. Makemake wau e hana pū me nā poʻe akamai, akā hiki iā lākou ke lawe i kahi mea kanaka i ka pilina. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, lilo wau i mea hoihoi i kahi alakaʻi ke hāʻule wau i ke aloha i kā lākou kiʻiʻoniʻoni (ma kahi ʻahaʻaina a i ʻole, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī, ma ka pūnaewele). No ka mea, he mau mea hoʻolaha pū mākou, ʻo kahi ala ʻē aʻe no ka hana a ke alakaʻi, ʻo ia ka hoʻolaha ʻana i kekahi o kā lākou kiʻiʻoniʻoni.

2. He ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia alakaʻi.

Schmerkin: ʻAʻole ʻo ia wale nō, ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia hana me kahi luna hoʻokele. No laila pono ʻoe e ʻike pehea e hoʻololi ai i kēlā me kēia ʻano a me kēlā me kēia papahana. ʻAʻole makemake kekahi mau alakaʻi i ke keakea pololei ʻana mai ka mea hana a i ʻole kekahi mea ʻē aʻe, aʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe e koi i ka hui pū ʻana. Makemake kekahi i ka pane maʻamau, makemake kekahi e hana hoʻokahi a hōʻike wale iā ʻoe i nā mea ke pau. Ke nui nā alakaʻi hui, hoʻololi lākou i nā kānalua, nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo me kekahi i kekahi a hōʻike mua i nā mea i ka mea hana ke noʻonoʻo maikaʻi ʻia lākou.

I kekahi hihia, ke hoʻomau nei au i ka hoʻoulu ʻana iā lākou i ka wā e loaʻa iaʻu nā mea e ʻōlelo ai a ʻaʻole i hoʻāʻo i nā ala hope loa e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā lākou i koʻu mau manaʻo. Ma hope o kēlā, aia iā lākou ka mea a lākou e hana ai i kaʻu mau ʻōlelo.

3. Ma ke ʻano he mea hoʻopuka, hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i ka hoʻokomo noʻeau.

Schmerkin: Ke manaʻo wau hiki iaʻu ke lawe i kahi mea i ka papaʻaina, e kiʻi ana i koʻu intuition a me koʻu ʻike (kākau wau a hoʻoponopono i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni ma mua o ka hele ʻana i ka hana), ke paipai nei au i ka luna alakaʻi, nāna e ʻae a ʻaʻole paha. Inā ʻaʻole lākou makemake iaʻu e komo, mahalo wau i kēlā. Akā inā manaʻo wau, no ka mea, manaʻo wau e hoʻololi kekahi mau mea - no laila, manaʻo wau e lawe mai i kahi mea kākau waho a mea hoʻoponopono paha, kahi mea kūʻokoʻa. ʻO ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni he haʻuki hui a ʻoi aku ka nui. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hana me nā alakaʻi i manaʻoʻiʻo ua pololei lākou i nā mea āpau a ʻaʻole hoʻolohe i kekahi.

4. Ua like ka mea hana a me ka luna ho'okele.

Schmerkin: ʻIke wau iā lākou he mau mākua pono e hānau keiki: ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaka me kahi pahuhopu like a me nā ʻano like o ka nānā ʻana i nā mea. Ma ke ala, hiki iā ʻoe ke hakakā; inā paʻakikī loa ka hakakā ʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokaʻawale i ka wā hana, ma ke ʻano he kāne, a haʻalele ka mea hana a i ʻole ka luna hoʻokele i ka papahana. ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe ke kuleana nui no ka hoʻopau ʻana.

Manaʻolana, hānau nā mākua i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni a lākou e haʻaheo pinepine ai a e hoʻomau lākou e pale aku i ka honua. Inā komo kekahi i loko o ka pilina makua kāne a makuahine paha me ke alakaʻi (no ka mea makemake lākou, me ka ʻike a ʻaʻole paha), hiki ke hoʻololi ʻia nā mea a hopena i kahi hānau kūlohelohe. ʻO ka hana kiʻiʻoniʻoni he hui, ʻaʻole he alakaʻi.

5. I ka hoʻomaka ʻana, e haʻi aku i ke alakaʻi: "Naʻu e hoʻohānau iā ʻoe."

Schmerkin: Manaʻo wau ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kekahi pōʻino ma ka hoʻohalahala loa. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hiki ke hōʻeha i ka pōʻino ma ka ʻole o ka ʻōlelo pololei. Akā, pono ʻoe e ʻike pehea e ʻōlelo ai i nā mea e hoʻoikaika ai i ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni a me ke alakaʻi me ka ʻole e hōʻeha a hoʻonāukiuki paha iā lākou. Eia hou, inā ʻike ʻoe iā ia ma ke ʻano o kahi kāne, e lawelawe maikaʻi ana ʻoe i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, no ka maikaʻi ʻoi aku. [Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe,] i loko o kahi pilina makua-keiki e mau ana ka wahaheʻe, nā kipi, kahi mea Oedipal.

6. Mai hoʻomaka e hana i ka luna hoʻokele āu i hoaaloha ai.

Schmerkin: Hiki i ka pōkole ke lawe i ʻelima a ʻeono paha makahiki, a ʻo ka pilina hana i kēlā manawa, me kāna mau hakakā kūpono, hiki ke hōʻino i kou pilina. ʻAʻole hiki i nā manawa a pau, akā ke kū mai kahi paio i ka wā o ka hana ʻana, pilikia ʻoe i ka nalowale ʻana o kahi alakaʻi a me kahi hoaaloha. ʻO kēlā ʻōlelo, ʻo ka hapa nui o nā alakaʻi aʻu i hana ai ma hope mai ua lilo i mau hoaaloha, ʻo kekahi o lākou pili loa, e like me Rosto.

7. ʻAʻole e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻia kekahi hui kūleʻa i kekahi.

Schmerkin: I kekahi manawa, hana ʻoe me ke alakaʻi, a he ʻike kanaka maikaʻi ia e alakaʻi ai i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni maikaʻi, akā ʻo ka papahana aʻe a lākou e hāʻawi ai iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole maopopo. I kēia manawa, hiki iā ʻoe ke hele a nīnau paha i ke alakaʻi no ke kumu e makemake ai lākou e hana i ka papahana, no ke aha e hana ʻia ai. ʻAʻole au makemake i nā alakaʻi e hana hou iā lākou iho - makemake wau e kāhāhā a manaʻo wau e hana pū ka hapa nui o nā mea nānā.

I kekahi manawa, ua hana au me kahi luna hoʻokele ma kahi papahana a lākou i hoʻoholo ai ma kekahi ʻano e hana ai, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole wau i maopopo loa. Ua hana au i kēia i mea e noho pū ai me ka luna hoʻokele i kā lākou ʻoihana a kākoʻo iā lākou, no ka mea, pono lākou i kēia kiʻiʻoniʻoni hou i hana ʻia i mea e ola ai.

(Kiʻi kiʻekiʻe: "Logorama" na François Alaux, Hervé de Crécy a me Ludovic Houplain, i hana ʻia e Autour de Minuit, H5, Addict, Mikros Images a me Arcadi.)